ok I did some research. He's staying at his cousin's farm.His cousin's wife is all into holistic medicine. THose books are ALL over the house, she goes to holistic retreats, yoga, etc....

H told me last month he was getting help holistically. This "OW" that they've texted each other 15 times, and spoken on the phone every day for 3 weeks for a few minutes, well, I found out her full name and researched her. She's a "holistic life coach". This could be still "OW" or she could be "helping him".

If she's helping him, I'm sure she's telling him, do what makes you happy? avoid all bad energy? etc....(I kept saying he's escaping reality)

How do I fight this?

M:27 H: 33
M:10/07
T:9 yrs
H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010
ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10
Confirmed OW:5/21
Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery)
Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)