before being in this situation, I would have also felt the same way. I would of been the friend saying, "You deserve so much better, blah blah blah"

But, you know what? Only you can decide what's better for you!
Because I know the backlash I would receive from my family/friends, only one friend who introduced me to DBing knows about what I'm doing.

I do not want "outside" influences.

M:27 H: 33
M:10/07
T:9 yrs
H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010
ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10
Confirmed OW:5/21
Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery)
Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)