I love you very dearly, Puppy. However, only I can determine when I am done. I am close, but not done.
Oh, I completely agree, Wifey. What I'm trying to say to you is, don't say that needing a definitive decision from him is a boundary for you, if it isn't. I'm just saying to treat "I don't know" as basically a NEGATIVE answer, have that BE your answer, and then determine how much longer you can live with that AS your answer (1 month? 3 months? A year? No longer at all? Other?). And to LET YOUR HUSBAND KNOW that you consider "I don't know" to BE an answer from him, and that you'll have to plan accordingly.
