Thanks ML. I hope he does reach out to me and I will be there for him but I doubt it now. Over the weekend I found out I've been right for the past 18 months. There is no OW but his parents are the ones that are pushing him to get a D.
He is so messed up, getting into trouble at work, drinking, and very depressed. He was always afraid of them, he use to tell me it was respect and I would tell him respect is one thing but to be afraid it totally different.
Anyway, with them really pushing him now to D me I'm scared out of my mind. I was told he is so vulnerable right now, and with them constantly telling him to do it, he just might because he doesn't want them upset with him.
I just never ever heard of a person being afraid at our ages of our parents. Even on this board I don't recall anyone worrying what the parents would think.
Now he is the one that is ill, and left us but I'm the bad guy. Go figure. Oh, I also found out that they are making stories up about me so that he will do it sooner.
I have been so depressed, I don't even have a life. Work 2 jobs etc. How could I be doing anything wrong? I'm standing for my M. Don't get me wrong, I'm starting to feel better but for a while there I was really a mess. Couldn't even function. And I'm the one they are blaming. I know that our S's do blame us for their depression etc. but WTH already with the IL's? They don't even call the kids or anything.
