I told my mom and sister about what this friend said to me and she responsed with its amazing how people open up with their dark secret when they know someone else is going through it. Almost like a secret society! But it shouldnt be. WHEN (the secret) I do get through this, I want to be of support to others... One other thing... mom's response was, why everytime you try to forget and move on, someone else comes to you with their success story! hahaha! she is really hoping H comes to his senses!
Maybe this is the secret at its best, maybe I am attracting this... hmmm.
I have another story too! My best friend, yes... best friend, had her H drop the bomb a month before she delivered. He told he he didnt love her, moved into the back room and they basically were separated! I can not believe she didnt say anything!!!! No one knows til this day and that was over a year ago. When the baby came, they started to work things out. Not sure what her sitch is now, as they have extremely complicated work schedules and i know this doesnt help their alone time especially with New Baby.
I did recommend she reads DB and DR and told her a lot of key points.
