The adventure continues--reruns

[AFWAW]

There is a DB gathering being planned for the Tucson area--how soon do you move?? Sorry your W is being a PITA. My exH is the same way.

I will be there the middle of October. Yes, she is being a pain.

What he sees as me 'supporting him'= agreeing with everything his says and blindly following his plans without question or argument. If ever I interject a question or opinion, he turns nasty and says I never support him...and whenever his plans don't turn out he immediately looks oustide himself for someone to blame. That gets exhausting!

I hear what you're saying. I picked up my daughter and she told me that the wife is trying to justify our divorce to my daughter. I asked what she meant and she said, well, Mommy said that you two weren't compatible and that Daddy is aging worse than me, what do you think? I laughed and asked my daughter if she thought that it was appropriate that her Mom was asking and saying these things to her. She said no and went on to say that she wasn't stupid in that Mommy had a BF, Mommy left and boy does she look rough. Daddy, I can't believe that you've finally realized that it's not going to work.

So, no matter how bad I feel at times, it apparently pales in comparison to how the wife is feeling and acting. While I'm not really vindictive in nature it is somewhat satisfying to know that life is not exactly a bed of roses for her either.