New here ... need some advice.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Katya.

I am so sorry to hear what you have been going through. I don't knw what DLShanks said to offend you but people here are honest and tell you want they think. Some good, some bad.

This is only my opinion from what I've read.

You are considerbly younger than H. Your H is in a high status position. Is there any truth to you being a trophy wife from him?
You might want to check out to see if there has been anyone else. It sounds like your H is very, very controlling.
Would you consider him a family man? If not then people in his position may feel there entitled to certain things, eg other women.
From him saying that you should see and sleep with other people is a good indication he may be already doing so.

What you need to do is take care of yourself. Pass your bar exam and secure a job so you could be ready to support yourself.


Again this is just my opinion and perspective on what you have told us.

If this offends you, I am sorry. Just calling it as I see it.

Keep writing others will be by.