Wow- I can't believe you met ANOTHER person who has gone through this and had a successful outcome (like the woman at the funeral)! Thank you for posting these stories. Maybe when I open up one day to people I will hear some, too!
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No expectations, tried to be the person he once fell in love with, and he came around slowly but surely. She also said she was so crushed that she felt like there is no way this is going to work out I need to get strong and move on and raise the baby alone and just leave him too.
I bolded the last part because it is what MWD kind of advocates yet it conflicts with positive thinking....She says to strengthen yourself, become independent and interesting again (through GAL and 180s). But with positive thinking/the Secret, you aren't supposed to prepare for the worst, right??? I get confused.
What are your thoughts, BD?
And about your H telling you he doesn't want pressure...better listen I guess. Can you handle keeping no expectations? Does that conflict with the Secret?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
