I just got off the phone with the financial advisor's W--wow--so surreal. I have spoken to this guy many, many times and NEVER in my WILDEST dreams would have thought him to be this way.
She read me some things she wrote in a journal and it was like I could have written all of it.
Now, the one thing that has me a little perplexed is that she's beein going to a C since 1998. wow--I would have given up WAY before then! But she did say she had some of her own issues since her father was a C and a pastor, and he had an affair and divorced her mom, and this happened when she was a teenager--so weird. My parents divorced when I was a teen, my father had an affair....yikes!
She was very, very suprised her H spoke to me at all--I told her that I don't expect my H to ever, ever think he did/does ANYTHING wrong. I hope I impressed on her that I thought it was FABULOUS that her H owned up to all that!! But, actually, I do think that she realized that THAT was a BIGGIE!!
I think there were 3 people really blessed by all this in the end. I really do.
