My h is unwilling to get any sort of help. He has pretty much admitted he is depressed but he isn't going to take drugs or go to some "shrink"... Anyway, I know that the ow isn't really the problem and I do think he needs to just be left alone. He told me the other night that he wants to set me "free" and he Is just going to muddle through life.

I have an appointment with my ic tomorrow. I hope to get some advice from her on how to respond to my h irratic behavior.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
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