Mila, the possibility of running into your H and OW is horrible. But I encourage you to stand your ground. If you hide...they win. I recently spent much of the day in close proximity with possible OW (thankfully not with H around). I decided to NOT yield ground or avoid her physically. I didn't engage in conversation (we are acquainted) but I didn't avoid contact. I decided that she was the one who should be skulking around, not me. I know your sitch is more extreme than that, but I want to share that I found that a very liberating mindset to adopt. Hold your head high and live your life. The shame is all theirs.
(((Mila)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
