I'm going to go with option 2. The question is - what will you do to balance the equation? You are taking something away - what should you add for yourself?

Think about it!

A

M - 46
H - 47
T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs
DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs
Bomb - 4/3/10
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