I understand completely Upside what you are going through. You never know what the MLC'er might do when they feel the real loss.
I am actually doing very good, but am in a very precarious situation right now with my h. Trying my best to navigate these trecherous waters and figure out what is going on. More to come on this later.
I have recently become unemployed, moved, and contemplating the next chapter of my life. All of this was actually for the best. My spirits are high and the above has helped me move out of the deep depression and rut I was in. It's as if a huge burden has been lifted. I am spending an amazing amount of time with the kids and can live off unemployment for a good chunk of time.
Spending 5 days a week in the gym and eating extremely clean. One of the benefits of MLC. Ha Ha Ha!
Stay strong Upside and keep us posted. Curious as to what your h will do next. Doesn't suprise me he didn't pick up stuff or process paperwork. He is stuck and that is really not the direction he wants to go, but can't say yes to coming home either. Hence stuck and confused! We know the script well! Ha Ha!
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"