I'm not sure it is time to make a step yet. I get the questions and have thought about them. I have prayed and prayed. The only answer I get right now is a "wait." I have had too many little "miracles" happen to give up yet, things that I do not believe are coincidental.
I believe he is waking up. I have seen him act in ways he hasn't for a couple of years now. I believe he is starting to see the damage he has done.
For now, I think I need to sit tight, hard as it is.