Wow, Jackie! Reminds me of the first time I really remember my H holding my hand after the bomb. It was about 3 weeks after I discovered the affair, 3 months after the ILYBINILWY speech. We were driving home from a weekend business trip in L.A., and he held my hand the whole drive home.
Now mind you - he was still planning on moving out at that time, took 3 more weeks to get an ILY out of him, and 2 1/2 months for him to finally tell the OW to quit contacting him - but it was a start.
Now - what are you doing Saturday night? Do NOT go out to dinner and sit and "talk" - surefire way to get into a teary R talk. I recommend a comedy club, if possible - if not, then the scariest movie you can find, or some other adrenaline-filled activity -go-karts? Rollercoasters?
Also - wear that new V.S. underwear, and make sure some of it shows! Wear something low-cut so he has to focus on your cleavage. And check out Indecence by Givenchy - my H gave me this perfume, and whenever I wear it, men ALWAYS comment on it.
Do so many 180s he will feel like he is dating a whole new woman. My H even gave me a new name and called me his "new" girlfriend! He's telling you he wants a new life, so give him a new wife!
