Wow Eric it sounds like you have learned much on this journey. Detachment is hard especially with kids.

All you can do is really work on yourself and become a better person.

I always tried taking the high road. Meaning regardless of what my h was doing to me or the kids, I still treated him as my partner. Being kind and loving towards him.

Time has a way of healing us. It will get way better as time does not stand still.

Keep up thinking positive about your situation and the way you are handling this crisis.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"