embracing change

[flowmom]

No I'm not sick any more, and PMA is much better as a result.

And yes, it does make things easier to have a "normal" vibe with H.

I've thought about it a lot. My goal is to have a friendship with H, not just barely civil coparenting interactions. So my interactions with him are based on creating a comfort zone for both of us that will eventually allow for that. If H and I can be friends, I feel that that will minimize the trauma for my children, and make the frequent contact with him more tolerable. I believe that I have to capacity to eventually forgive and overcome my sense of betrayal about what he's done to our family.