Serenity,
My god - what a terrible scene. Please do what you can to help your sons - get some external help with the 'best way' to frame this situation for your children so that they don't internalize and personalize it. I'm so sorry for you and your children and I'm very sorry for your husband - his heart must be pretty closed off.

A


M - 46
H - 47
T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs
DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs
Bomb - 4/3/10
My Sitch