To clarify, I am saying until he fixes his main problem, which is the depression. The symptoms will keep coming back. OW may go to the other side of the country and he will just find another one, or maybe he will turn to drinking or some other horrible behavior, but in any of those cases, until he gets help for himself, the other symptoms will keep coming.
You need to let him find his way and just detach. I by no means am saying D, but you need to let him fall.
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