Why not take the opportunity to ask if she is still planning to leave. If she says, "We should redo the kitchen", you say, "I don't need a new kitchen if you're moving to the apartment." She might be looking for a way to tell you she is not moving.
Yes, and women in particular like to HINT rather than say things outright...
I say accept the hint and don't pressure her.. It's just pursuit if you do try to get a straight answer from her - no relationship talk is right out of the book.
