Mila, I really think they dont think about how things affect us too much. As long as they feel good. My H knew how much I hated seeing him at the OW's house when I had to pass it every day, yet he was there practically every day anyway. Would even take the kids there even though he knew I hated it. They are only thinking about themselves.

I think you are doing a great job with everything!

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10