Thanks, PG. I am leaving with the understanding that I cannot do anything to control W. She is on her own. I think she is on the wrong path, with probable disasterous consequences. Things are undoubtedly going to get much worse before they get better. Hopefully she will be able to calm down and think clearly in the next three weeks. She will probably just steel her resolve, and continue down the path to D. I need to get myself healthy and centered so I can withstand the looming issues. I just hope she does not do permannent damage to her formerly wonderful persona. A big fear.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012