Do you think this kind of attitude is going to ever make your wife look back at you? It wont. It is completely unattractive to her or any woman for that matter. They want to see strength and stability in the face of obstacles. You have the ability to change that in you. Nobody here can do that for you. You will ultimately decide what kind of life you live. I hope it is not the current choice. How miserable that would be.
Choose to be happy or choose to be miserable. But you will end up being miserable alone because most people can only take so much of that.
Your choice,
Kevin
She doesn't seem to care anywaz. I'll try to be happy but I'm miserable man. I really do try but I don't see anything to be happy about.
Ive been fighting and fighting and fighting and you get worn down and discouraged when yhou don't see anything positive happening.
How long are you supposed to stay positive and keep taking hits? it's only so many I can take
James217,
There is one thing that is true. Either your wife/gf is eventually going to have nothing to do for you OR you are going to get tired of her bull-crap, or she will stop playing games with you. It eventually happens.
Getting tired of their bull-crap is not a bad thing either, because you realize in your mind and heart that they are not going to stop it and you start doing whats right for you. When you are tired of her bull-crap you won't even want to post here about it, or talk about it. Life will get better.
I hope you can recover your relationship, but if not I hope you tire of her bull-crap before you take too much more damage.
