I say this because I am not going to invest in a home remodel and then have W leave it.

For example

W: I am leaving

Me: What about all these repairs/remodeling we did to our home?

W: That was you not me, you wanted, you did them.

Where as if she asked her father, he would get the impression he is going to stay and I know W would not waste his time. Of course I help FIL do these things

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10