It HURTS so bad, desperately need re assurance

[BeingMe]

Sorry to chime in here, but hasn't she actually gone back to her legal husband? (Did I read it correctly?) I think, given your "wifes" history, she has no right to complain about the life she had with you. Good grief! Mentioning that she had accepted the housework stuff doesn't mean you were alerted to the problem. I am so sick and tired of these WAS's not being specific about their problems. It's like reading a detective novel, looking for leads and clues.

You should definitely get full custody of the kids. The fact that she signed over her first children to their paternal grandmother makes me think you'll have no problem. I just don't know how any mother could do this. And going back to an abusive R is nutso .... my first M was abusive, and there is no way on earth I would go back to him.

I wish you good luck and hope it all works out.