Hi Jackie. Sounds like you and I are in the same weird spot right now. Our sitch's are so similar and how are H's are behaving is similar too.
Tell you what - you keep my PMA up and I'll help with yours.
How was your weekend? I hope it went well and was good for you. The weekends will get easier and you will find that the list of things you want to get done without "helpers" will grow. You'll be able to get sooooo much done! And feel such acomplishment.
Hang in there.
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