All you can take care of is you and kids if D happens. Try not to despise your W as much as I do mine right now. Being able to communicate would help in any circumstances. I just don't care.
You are right, she has to do what she can to help them cope too, and I hope she will for the kids sake.
My wife she just wants to take over, and I have to say enough is enough.
You have to decide what is right for you. I know you will make the best decision you can.
Take care of yourself.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
