Hang strong IDU Pigskin, and a few others of ya. I will say that the need for "proof" at this point in the game is a tad overrated. Odds are, knowing how "the teacher circles" work . . .everyone she works with knows, and dollars to donuts says that at least one kid has noticed "something is up" Mith Mrs IDU and Mr. Sleazeball.
I know when I was in high school, we used to joke about one of the Sisters and one of the priests "Cheating on God" since they were supposedly married to Him. Years after graduation, I found out that they had been booted from the school . . .for just that, and had both since left the service of the Catholic Church . . .though not together.
If you have staff backing, even from one, and investigation will likely get a bunch of people talking. While they may "keep their mouths shut" other than whispers, they probably won't be so secretive if questioned in an investigation into your allegation.
And I do think where someone says you need to be a pain in HIS butt . . .that's exactly right, in my "cabinetmakers opinion"
Again, hang in there. Buy yourself something cool that your wife would think was just stupid, heheh.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.
