The U-haul has come and I should go

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Jackie, You sre doing a great job! I see quite a few posisitves - he asked to come to karate and then to dinner. This is good. I think he's already missing you. H ejust needs some more time, which the two of you have discussed. This is something you can give him. Cupcake is right - I think they believe that they'll feel terrific if they can just get away from the LBS, but it seems to not be what they expect. My H also seemed to vent his frustration towards me when this happened. Try not to beat yourself up about asking for a hug. It is so hard not to do that - especially after they've come in close. Keep in mind that they usually pull back after a period of closeness. Expecting it helps some with the pain when it happens. I also agree that your H seems comfortable with you and in discussing some things with you, which is important. Keep up what you've been doing because I agree it seems to be working.

Try to really relax this weekend. This is hard - especially when you take care of children. Treat yourself with tenderness and give yourself a pat on the back for the wonderful job you're doing.

This is a tough ride, but I am hopeful for you and your H.

(((Jackie))) Drive safely! Wish I could come too!