H came today to pick up little man and spend a few hours with him since he didn't see him on his b-day...
I went to Church as little man went off to have fun with the Disneyland Dad...
Went to lunch and then a place kinda like Sea World (no comment on whether he was visiting the whale of the OW)
I got home first and they arrived about 30 minutes after me...
Saw older son walking up the driveway however little man didn't look happy at all..
Asked him what was wrong and he wouldn't answer me at first...
I went to ask H if he had been sick or acting "off" during their time together...
H said nope...S was a bit mouthy however (WTHever)...
So little man comes down the driveway and starts talking to H..Tells him to tell me why he is never living with us again...Why he left, why older S isn't ever coming back...
H is ignoring him and I turned to H and said aren't you going to address him, he is speaking to you...
H says we took care of that at lunch...*Breaks slamming* Who is "we"? I asked...
Older S explained to him what was going on...WTF?
I said You Did What? He said he had older S explain what was going on between H and I, in kid speak so little man would understand...
Let me get this straight...You wanted a D, I served you, you refused to sign the papers, gave them back to me on Mother's Day no less and now you have our 14 year old S do your dirty work with our 7 year old?
Yep - With a smug smile
My little man stood there with tears in his eyes and I looked back between H and S...Back and forth for a good 2 full minutes without speaking...Then I took my sons' hand, put a smile on my face and stood up a little taller as I uttered 2 words I swore I would never say in front of my children...
F*****G P***K
Then S and I turned and walked away.
I have stood back for almost 16 months and never disrespected him in front of them nor to them...I have never bad mouthed him nor cursed him...
My son cried for almost 2 straight hours after H left wondering why his Dad didn't want to live with him ever again and why his Dad and Brother treated him like crap today...
I have no answer for that.
I don't see any reason why I can't just punch him in the throat as I walk away, however I am trying to be the better person here.
Amazing how low he will stoop in order to not own his own S**T.
((((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
