AMG think about how the anniversary date will affect you. If you are really bothered by it and can't talk to your h without getting upset then it is best to be dark until it passes.
If you are able to take the higher road then do so. Meaning you could always wish your h happy anniversary. I always tried to take the high road and wished my h happy anniversary regardless of our situation.
We also celebrated our anniversary together too. My h wanted that. I felt what are we celebrating, but put that behind me and enjoyed my h's company. Again I took the high road.
Think about what might work best for you.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
