I think they are capable of manipulations, so I believe he was thinking this through.
I think you nailed it, Mila, he's punishing you.
Let's go with that... no need to analyze further because in the long run, it doesn't even really matter, does it? His mood and mind will be changed by tomorrow or next week or whenever.
It doesn't change what you are doing, but to me, in my life, it does help when I understand his motivation... or at least have a reasonable explanation for what he's doing. I find I am more compassionate and detached, in some odd way, when I can say "he's hurt" or "he's angry at no contact" or whatever.
