MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

M&H - I think that this is the quote that you were referring to. He said this at our last Starbucks meeting, that's a month after telling me that he wants to R and that he thinks that the affair was a mistake....

He also said that even though he lied to me before that he is now very truthful with me and hopes to regain my trust, and why don't I just get over it, it's been already six months since he told me that he wants to be with OW (in between told me 3 times that he wants to be with me), and put the past behind already and that he would like to be friendly with me but I'm not letting him

I don't know...what does he want? To forget the last 36 years, to be happy with just being his friend and to accept OW and become her friend as well? Also he couldn't be sure that I would see them driving by or playing tennis together...but the chances were pretty high.

Or maybe he is punishing me for cutting him off and is flaunting his new "relationship" at me...like saying..."You see I don't care that you are not talking to me I'm having good time anyway" That would be pretty childish...but then again that would fit the MLC script.

Or he is totally oblivious to everything and living in his fantasy world, nor even thinking why he does what he does and that there was not a thought in his head how his actions may affect others.

I know, I know...I'm analyzing an alien....human rules don't apply...so there is probably no point...