my s called h last night. H said he went to friends sisters house with his friend for dinner. H sounded sad. H asked son how he and I were feeling because son has had and upset stomach for 3 days. I get so angry at h for doing this to his son. Today h called son to ask how he was. H sounded happy today I hate when he sounds happy. I get really angry at his mother. I think she is a big part of our m problems, she never let h have his own life. We use to live next to her and she woundnt let us move 2 miles away from her. She is so codependent especially now that her h died. She wanted h to herself now she has him. She is so selfish to steal h away from my son. Son is not doing good in school and mil says oh thats okay youll graduate. She lives in such denial about everything. Her h was abusing her adopted daughter when she was young and the mother never protected her. She is doing the same thing with h she tells him he's not doing anything wrong its all my fault. Oh well I can't control their craziness.