Got some great posts above and I'll respond but I am really trying (failing) to file my taxes tonight. I'm just so depressed.

This is the weekend H went to Canada with friends and OW, and it's really affecting me. It's hurtful after I've felt so detached for a while now.

Positive Lifetime Attitude Award: http://tinyurl.com/2dssttf

H in MLC?: http://tinyurl.com/23fabv8

Infidelity: Expose or Not? http://tinyurl.com/26ksmfj