It seems to me like H has moved on to wanting you to "accept" him with OW. I don't know why or what his game is, but I'm certain this is a game to him. He's trying to get a reaction from you. I think it has to do with his last spew... review what he said again and try to remember more and you may know what he's doing. It may still hurt, but knowing is very helpful... didn't he say he's moved on and he doesn't know why you can't accept it? Something like that. I have to file my taxes tonight so I don't have time to go back and read, sorry.