SA, It's hard to say....if you can teach them to love unconditionally, that might better. It's difficult to teach and/or explain to a child that they need to detach and love from afar. If they are star pupils, they may become distant and learn not to exhibit their emotions later on in life. It could become a learned behavior and one that could lead to many issues later in life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
