Do you think this kind of attitude is going to ever make your wife look back at you? It wont. It is completely unattractive to her or any woman for that matter. They want to see strength and stability in the face of obstacles. You have the ability to change that in you. Nobody here can do that for you. You will ultimately decide what kind of life you live. I hope it is not the current choice. How miserable that would be.

Choose to be happy or choose to be miserable. But you will end up being miserable alone because most people can only take so much of that.

Your choice,

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...