Snodderly I have been reading some of the midlife Archives and in one of your posts you mentioned Replay playing out in various stages. You talked of 'the eye of the storm' where thay spew at the LBS and then a claming down again. I feel I am at this stage with my H. The Anger has definitly gone and he has been much calmer for the last 3 months. The spewing itself lasted about 8 months. Could you comment on this and the stages you have witnessed. Thanks