How much concrete proof do I need? I have the phone and TM logs. And this guy lives over one hour away, and when she gave lame excuse for spending the night away from home, I drove up early in the morning and have photo evidence of her car in his condo parking lot? Do I need to show the pictures for proof to her?
If I can bring myself to expose, I am planning on have 4-5 boundaries to be set, most important it seems is the ‘no contact’ letter, and the transparency issue, so I have all access for building the trust back. How much time do I give for the whole decision on her part to adhere to them, and the writing of the NC letter?
Besides the persuing, what other mistakes are made that could turn it bad?


from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men"
Me -44
WAW - 43
D14
D8
EA/PA mid May,2010
WAW moved out- 07/01/10
WAW filed 07/01/10