I feel the same way you do. The stuff my H has admitted out loud seems so fixable. And in my mind it's the small stuff. Now I can't say that to him because it negates his feelings and viewpoint.
And you are right, the dynamics of our relationship changed after the kids were born, but again - I feel like "hey - you adapt!". I think he envisions romantic passionate love all the time and doesn't realize that the love is always there but it ebbs and flows within your lives.
Now that we have revisited some of the romantic passionate stuff , he is happier with "us" and so, frankly, am I. But the kids are beyond the infant/toddler state and less dependent on me too so that makes a difference on my end that I don't think he realizes.
Anyway, keep up the positive attitude and take care of you!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
, he is happier with "us" and so, frankly, am I. But the kids are beyond the infant/toddler state and less dependent on me too so that makes a difference on my end that I don't think he realizes.
