The adventure continues--reruns

[AFWAW]

Update, I got my divorce date set for 2 June. It has been difficult to concentrate. My stepson had his kid, a baby boy but he has had little motivation to talk to me or his mother let alone get a freaking job.

My wife got rid of my daughter's dog as well. My D was very upset and has had a difficult time with the whole ordeal.

While I have not initiated contact w/ my wife, she keeps freaking calling me when she needs stuff. Most of the time I don't respond but she is persistant. Today, it was her calling because she wanted me to go get the dog back because the new owner was contacting her saying that the dog was bad. Turns out the new owner just wanted to bitch but had no intention of giving the dog back. My wife started crying on the phone saying that nothing ever works out for her. Ugh. Then she asked why we didn't work out and started to get ugly. I said, you know, I've noticed a trend. She said, what's that? I said, whenever you need me, you're very nice but when I say something you don't like to hear or I don't react the way that I like you get ugly. Hmmmmmm.

I have not told my wife when the court date is for my divorce. Should I? Or should I leave that to my lawyer to contact her?

Additionally, I finally got orders. I'm not going to Key West. I was disappointed but I did get my second choice--Tucson, AZ. I haven't told the wife about the orders yet--not sure when I should, maybe after the divorce is final? This location will probably be better for my daughter. I can always move to Key West after I retire from the military.

My wife has had to take a parttime job so she pay her bills. Everytime I talk to her she constantly complains about money.

I am having a hard time concentrating lately. Between work, trying to sell my house and making sure my daughter is doing ok I'm stretched pretty thin somedays. Throw in some drama from my wife and it's no wonder I'm stressed somedays. It doesn't seem like she's learned a damn thing from this whole ordeal.

I'm waiting for this to get easier but it doesn't seem to be.