Timeheals, I think you are correct. He does not respect me or his mother. It is so sad. My mil is the sweetest, nicest, most caring person on the planet. Yes she can be annoying to both me and her sons but who's mom isn't at some point? He is in some sort of dillusional fog and it is so sad that he would stoop so low to say such a thing about his own mother. She is the one putting a roof over his head right now. Guarantee you she is cooking and cleaning for him too!
I just wish this girl he is infactuated with would go away.... I know she is just a symptom of the problem but I think it would help him get on a path to find out his true problems.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present