Thanks for the responses. It is so great to read and hear the caring words. I need to read through them again and really process it and decide on what I should do next, or not do, if that may be the case. One of the things that bothers me is that I think all the problems he lists are fixable. Perhaps this all comes down to communication, or lack of, expecially after the kids came along. I put down the Mars/Venus book after he made his decison to bolt, perhaps I should pick it up and practice on him while he is not here.
