Wow Anned, that is a long list to tackle right off the bat! I am so sorry! I definitely recommend only dealing with one issue at a time. I am a scheduler/planner by nature, so I can imagine how it must feel to have so many events coming up.
If you do go to the wedding solo, I don't know why you would need to call H first to tell him what you are doing.
Good luck with your coaching session, let us know what your coach suggests.
