RLay, Your h is attempting to self medicate w/women. He hasn't found the "soulmate" of his dreams and that's why he continues to cry that he is lonely. He hasn't come to the conclusion yet, that happiness comes from within and that his soulmate is right at home w/his family.
Women, drugs, sex, gambling, drinking, doping, etc. are all self medications. They will work for a short period of time and then they move on to something else that makes them feel good. The women he's seeing are nothing more than company to listen to him and stroke his ego and yes, most likely sex. I know that this isn't what you want to read today, but he is acting out and acting just like a teenager and when they are like this, they will be experimenting for months to come.
Is there hope? Of course, there's always hope and you have to have faith in God, for he is the only one that can repair your h right now. I know it hurts like heck, but there's nothing you can do about him; but you can take are of yourself and your children and be the best listener you can be for them. They need you now more than ever.
The most important thing to do is take care of yourself. Allow God to work on your h.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
