Rlay sorry your h is acting this way. Anything is possible. SA is correct you can't control your h or stop him from doing what he is doing.

Do spend this time working on yourself. A good website that really helped me was divorceasfriends. Not the D part, but it had some good insight about letting go etc. It really helped me to see another perspective. You might want to check that out.

What is it that you would like to see from your h? Maybe think about that and work towards how you could possibly positively influence the situation.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"