amd, I was wondering....would you come fengshu my house too? I'm so bad with house stuff, and the more I ignore it the worse it gets. I want a nice house, I just don't want to do anything about it!
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I continue to work on the D paperwork in my mind. I want him to take this loan over before I give him the papers, but that may not happen; although I have that issue covered in the papers, I want to not worry that he'll default and leave me holding the bag. I also continue to pray for reconciliation between us. It's weird to hope for one thing and prepare for the opposite. I feel very peaceful within myself, though. Peaceful in my whole life, not just about the situation with H.
I loved reading this. IMO it is where you need to be. I was there too, and I think as long as it is real issues you are dealing with before D papers get filed it makes perfect sense(cents). I never had to file, who knows for you?
I wonder though, why do you let your H think you don't know about his other life?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
