Exposing an affair

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MI to W:
I have decided I will not live in an open marriage and I will not model that for my children either. Your things are packed and in the garage. I will interview lawyers first thing Monday so I can dissolve this M. I'll give the lawyer your contact info."
No discussion, MI. You are not negotiating w a woman who conducts her life as she has. Let her go. By her actions, that is what she has said she wants. Ok, lady...put your Big Girl Panties on and go. She won't be nearly as attractive to OM showing up on his doorstep needing provisions. She is his bit on the side ...not a responsibility. But let them have that moment. YOU will not abide an unfaithful W.

No discussion, MI. Get emotional when she is gone but NOT in front of her. In her presence you are composed, measured, sure of your boundaries and unflappable.

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