Oh, sounds familier. I just posted something that sounds similar. My wife admitted she hates me and the kids, and is blaming me for everything wrong in our lives. Although she has not moved out, her family would not allow for it, we are starting to live separate lives.
I am struggling to hold on to my life. I do feel there are things that I can do to be a better husband, but the hostility needs to stop.
If there are things you can do to improve the marraige, hopefully you (and I) can get the skills to be a better husband.
However, she chose to marry you, have kids with you and then move out. You are probably an amazing husband, and father we just need to figure out how to stop hurting our wives.
Good luck and take care, and if you have any suggestions, I am willing to hear it.